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I am the granddaughter of hawkers from Penang on dad’s side. Plus my mom loved to cook and has a menagerie of recipe clippings and what nots lying about. So cooking is like second nature to me. I begged my grandmother to teach me how to cook. Which she finally did when I was 10. Sadly, she passed away when I was 12. There were so many family recipes that went with her to the other side. I have been cooking and experimenting ever since. Most of the time, Ben is always the guinea pig. I used to cook breakfast almost every morning for my ex. I am not sure if it is because I loved him or because I loved cooking.

Recently, XR brought back avocadoes from Sabah. I never knew we grew avocadoes locally but that is another matter. With avocadoes, naturally you make guacamole. Now I have never made guacamole before. Read a few recipes a long time ago but never made it.

However, when God gives you avocadoes, you make GUACAMOLE!!!! (Not original, I know. But so I care?)

Here is my Guacamole Recipe.
Enjoy!!!

2 ripe avocadoes, deseed and cubed
5 tablespoons of light sour cream
4 tablespoons of chopped yellow/white onion
3 tablespoons of tomato salsa
1-2 teaspoons jalapeno pepper finely chopped (optional)

1. Mash avocadoes with sour cream in a big bowl.
2. Fold in the other ingredients.
3. Mix well.
4. Serve with Nacho chips.

Note:- Since the guacamole is fresh. It will probably keep 2-3 days in the fridge in an air tight jar.

I have been advising a few people who want to make it into the entertainment biz. And to be honest, it is one of the toughest businesses to break into; especially if you are a newbie without any experience.

Most of you would know by now that I am an actress by training and been active in the local theater scene for a few years. I am not much of a singer unless you count my participation in the school choir which I reluctantly join. Therefore, I am not much of an authority to talk on starting a singing career. However, singing and acting do cross paths in some expect. After all, both are performance based.

I am basing this whole entry on my acting experience.

1. Get the experience
Now, school concerts, karaoke sessions and singing in the shower do not really count as experience mind you. Try to get a paid gig at the local café or pub. Build a fan base from these gigs. Many Americans singers started out singing at church. That is a viable way of getting experience.

2. Join a Reality Talent show.
The following videos are winners and finalists of different shows. In my opinion, you do not really have to win. Of course winning will make it easier, however, if you are good and you have received enough exposure in the media as a contestant, you should be one step closer in achieving your dreams.

Here we have Vince Chong of Akademi Fantasia 1 and Jaclyn Victor of Malaysian Idol 1.

Shayne Ward of X-factor

Chris Daughtry

3. Volunteer at gigs.
This takes a lot of hard work and perseverance. But it is the best place to network. You will never know who you meet and who can help you out. Plus, you get to know more about the insider stuff and how to do things.

4. Exposure on the Internet
There are many websites now that you can use to get more exposure. Video hosting sites like www.Youtube.com is an excellent way to post up videos. Then there is all the social networking sites, like MySpace, Friendster and Multiply. If you want, you can always get a blog or buy a domain name via www.hostonfire.com

Here are a few people who got signed on after being discovered online.

Soulja Boy

Colbie Caillat

These are just tips I have modified based on my acting experience and expertise over the years. Results may vary according to individuals and effort put in. Plus it really depends on how talented you are. Good luck!!

As much as my friends tell me that everyone should let time and fate take its course when it comes to dating. I have set up a few general rules to abide by.

1. Never date a friend’s sibling
2. Never date a friend’s or a sibling’s ex
3. Never be the third party in the relationship

Call me anal or whatever you like. But the 3 rules above can really help.

As for me, I set up my own 20 commanments of dating. This however, only applies to me, so I shall not torture the rest of you with them.

As the story was orally passed down. Facts can be distorted from actual history. So if you think this is wrong, feel free to let me know the ‘real’ facts. But please do not undermine my credibility, as one reader has done bluntly in an e-mail. I, on the other hand would love to find out about my own culture, but to attack me personally for something that I researched only by interviewing people and reading a few articles, is going a bit too far. Yes, I will expressed that I am hurt. But this will not deter me from publishing this (even though it is an online version)

Hokkien New Year by Adeline Ong

On the 9th day of the Lunar New Year, the Hokkiens celebrate their saviour, the Jade Emperor’s (also known as Ti-Kong in Hokkien) compassion for saving their clan. The celebration, known as Pai Ti Kong, literally translated to Praying to the Heavenly God, commemorates this act.

Legend has it that the Hokkiens, once angered another Chinese dialect group in China. This group vowed to wipe off the entire Hokkien race. The Hokkiens, fearing for their lives, hid in the sugarcane plantations. For days on end, they survived by eating the sugarcane. Undeterred by the thick sugarcane groves, the enemies started to burn the sugarcanes, in hope of killing the hiding survivors.

In fear and desperation, the Hokkiens prayed to the Heavens, seeking the mercy of the Jade Emperor. In answer to their plight, the Heavens opened up and heavy rain began to fall on Earth, forcing the angry pursuers to retreat and extinguishing the flames. By midnight of the 9th day, the Hokkiens emerged from their sanctuary, unharmed.

From that day onwards, the 9th day of the Chinese New Year is celebrated with prayers of Thanksgiving. The 9 th day is also known as the Jade Emperor’s birthday.

On the eve of the celebration, Hokkien houses will be seen decked with praying paraphernalia. This usually consists of a big red altar with two sticks of sugarcane tied on both ends. The sugarcane is a must as it reminds the Hokkiens of how their race was saved during the genocide. Elaborated folded joss paper resembling gold and silver ingots, known as Ti Kong Kim, adorns the altar. A variety of foods are offered, from roast pigs to ducks, traditional kuihs and fruits. Some Hokkiens will offer vegetarian dishes only because they believe it is sinful to offer meat (blood) as to commemorate being saved from execution.

Prayers usually start from Midnight and ends around 2 a.m. with a small bonfire, burning the Ti Kong Kim. The food offered to the Jade Emperor is deemed blessed and is often distributed among family members.

Nowadays, the prayers are done to express gratitude for the past year and seeking blessings for the New Year. Commonly, people will ask for blessings for their family, career, studies and business. It is also believed that wishes made on this auspicious night will come true because the Jade Emperor is generous on his Birthday

This is the story I wrote back in 1999 that got me a highly commended award. I always knew that I want to be a writer and winning the award actually help me believe that I can be a writer.

Hope you enjoy it.

Your Time Is Up

Making my way through a dimly lit hallway, I recognised the carpets and furniture were from the time of Renaissance. The paintings on the walls were of the masterpieces of centuries of great artists. Amongst them were Leonardo Da Vinci, Vincent Van Gogh and Michaelangelo. I could not tell if they were the original art or just mere copies. As I strolled down, admiring the individual pictures, the windows burst opened sending a gush of wind into my face, blowing millions of dust particles straight into my eyes and nostrils. I sneezed. My eyes became watery. I fought my way against it and struggled hard to shut the shutters. Slamming the menacing wind out of the mansion, I continued my way to the library.

I did not know why my mother sent me here. The place sent shivers down my spine. I have never enjoyed staying at my Uncle Carl’s Vatican mansion. It was not that I dislike the kind big old man who always has us for the summer holidays. It was just my cousins. My cousins were not of my age group. Either they were in college or they were mere elementary school children. In fact, I did not even share the same bloodline as them. I have always felt so out of place. I knew that being adopted by such a rich family was not a bad thing. Uncle Carl and my mother knew it was hard for me to fit in. They encouraged me and gave me everything. Yet, I could not find my purpose in life. Plus the question why my birth mother abandoned me still lingered in my mind.

During my vacations at Uncle Carl’s, I often wandered around the neighbourhood, much to Fridley, the butler’s annoyance. I loved being alone on my little expeditions. Sometimes I travelled a bit too far from the house. Poor old Fridley had to come searching for me. The last time I got lost in the woods, chasing a hare to its burrow. I was just ten years old back then. I smiled as I continued down the hallway.

“Something amusing, my lady?� a curious voice called behind me.

It made me jump and then I pause for a moment. I spun around to see who it was. There he was a six foot five inches man, dressed in his best black suit. I looked up to him – the giant that was towering over me. “Fridley, old chap! You gave me a fright. Never do that again,â€? I exclaimed.

“I’m sorry, my lady. Nevertheless, I see that you have picked up the British accent. Hmmm..,� he replied smiling.

“Just a week is enough to get me going. And please don’t call me my lady. It makes me feel so old. I’ll be turning only sixteen in three weeks time.�

“As you wish, my lady,� Fridley shot back, sarcastically.

I rolled my eyes and stuck my tongue playfully at him. “Is that for Uncle Carl?� I pointed at the silver tray he was holding.

“Yes, it’s time for Master Fredmon’s medication,� he answered. Then the doorbell rang. “Oh dear, do you mind carrying this to the library? Master Fredmon is there. I’ve got to get the door.�

He left me standing there with a whole silver tea set. I gave a loud sigh. But no one could hear it unless the walls have ears. Balancing the whole tray, I slowly climbed the creaky staircase, which led to the library.
Outside the library, I could hear Uncle Carl coughing. I knocked gently on the door before entering. There was Uncle Carl seated in his big comfortable armchair, lost in his own world of fantasies. This was the only man that I knew who adores books. He has a collection of books that even my school library could not compare. He taught me many things about life. Especially, when I had problems, he always knows the answer.

He looked up from his book and gave me a warm smile. “What is it my child?�

“Well, it’s time for your medication,� I said, raising the tray a little.

After taking his medicine, I curled up beside him next to the fire. It was quite chilly for a summer night. It had rained the whole day.

“What have you been up to, my dear?� Uncle Carl asked. His voice was hoarse and weak.

“I went to the market this morning and I met this old beggar….�

“In the rain?� Uncle Carl cut my sentence. “Oh, dear. You are always out and about helping people. But please look after your own health.�

I nodded in reply and continued my story.

The scene of the haggard old beggar thrusting his gnarled wrinkled hand at me, asking for a coin replayed in my mind. He was dirty and smelt horrible. Yet, behind the dirt and grime, a white bush for a beard, his eyes caught my attention. Those eyes were baby blue. So gentle. If I left him there, my guilt would soon devour me like a hungry beast. I just had to oblige. I gave him a pound and then I took off.

Despite wearing a heavy raincoat and carrying an umbrella, I could not keep myself from getting wet. That is when my conscience bugged me. I had to go back and get the poor old man. I turned around and headed back to the almost deserted market place. The wind was howling. I was lost in the curtains of rain. I could hardly see a thing. Yet, I was determined to find the old beggar. I went from corner to corner searching for the old man. Just as I was about to give up, I heard a sneeze. It was funny though. With the rain pouring so heavily, it was even impossible to hear a yell but I heard a sneeze. To my relief, I saw the old beggar curled up beside a trashcan. I approached him.

“Come on, sir. Let’s go to a place where it’s nice and dry,� I said as I gave him my hand to hold onto.
We went to a small café. It was not very fancy but it was warm and cosy. I ordered a bowl of soup and some pasta for him. As for myself, I took a cup of hot tea and some toast. Although he was hungry, he ate in a very proper manner, unlike most people I have known. He did not say a word until he had finished his meal.

“Thank you, my dear. It has been months since someone has treated me like a human being,� he said in a grateful voice.

I came to know that the beggar sitting in front of me used to come from a wealthy family. Mr. Johnson as he claimed to be, had his own business empire, a loving wife and three sons. His wife left him for a better world five years ago and that is when he became ill himself. He left his fortune to his three sons fearing he might not live long enough to run it. In return, he was abandoned and disowned by his own flesh and blood. He was sent to an old folks’ home where he was mistreated. When the torture became unbearable, Mr. Johnson made up his mind and left the home. He began living on the streets and started eating out of trashcans. The thought of it made my stomach go queasy. He resolved to begging in order to survive. Despite all his hardship, Mr. Johnson expressed that for once he was happy.

Upon hearing his statement, I was surprised. A business tycoon, now a mere beggar was happy.

Out of pure curiosity, I asked, “But why sir? I do not understand.�

Mr. Johnson took my hand and patted it. He said life had been better now that he was on the streets. He did not have to worry about his business or his appearance. He would not have to be a hypocrite just for a business deal. For once, he could be free. It is true that now he is free. He told me in life, nothing could remain the same tomorrow. God has his own way of working and sometimes miracles may come in the form of pain and loss. Nobody knows when Armageddon might hit. Life is to be fulfilled with good deeds and if our time has come, we know we had left a legacy or a memory in this world. Materials may vanish but memories can be cherished. After that, he left me sitting down in the café all alone as I watch his fragile silhouette walk in the drizzle.

By then, Uncle Carl had fell asleep. I covered him with his blanket and gave him a slight peck on his forehead. I took a big breath and looked around the library. Some of the books were left untouched for many years. The paper was yellow and brittle. Thick layers of dust lay undisturbed on the covers. Uncle Carl did adore books but at his age, he had a hard time taking care of them. I walked to the nearest shelf and pulled out a big red book. I slowly opened its cover. On the first page it stated, “I am only one, but still I am one; I cannot do everything, but still I can do something; and because I cannot do everything I will not refuse to do something that I can do – Edward E. Hale.�

That phrase was Uncle Carl’s favourite. I smiled and then my mind began to ponder. A million questions crowded my thoughts. I started to reconsider Mr. Johnson’s words. As I eyed every book around me, I began to think. What if these books were people? All the knowledge and wisdom left to rot in a neglected library. The books symbolised men like Mr. Johnson, now ignored by the public, treated like trash. What if Armageddon really did strike tomorrow? Will mankind be prepared to face their time?

Life is like that. You can never expect to have maximum results if you do not work for it. I was ashamed for it took me so long to realise my mistake. Even worse, I had to learn it from an old beggar. But it took mankind even longer. I might as well consider myself lucky.

I fell asleep on the rug by the fire. When I woke up, I saw Uncle Carl still resting on his armchair. I approached the gentle giant and shook him. Unfortunately, there was no response. I checked for his pulse but there was none. His body was cold. I screamed for Fridley.

Uncle Carl had passed away the night before. He seem so peaceful when the laid him down in his coffin. From the look of his face, I believed without a doubt that Uncle Carl had lived his life to the fullest. He had been kind and altruistic. It hurt me deeply to lose my uncle. At least I know that he had left this world knowing that I appreciated him and his wisdom. Plus the fact he had appreciated his own life and never took things for granted.

Many people do not realise how precious life can be. Others do not appreciate the things they have. You and I may be one of those who had never spent enough time appreciating and loving the thing there are around us. You may not realise it until your time is up. I just happened to be lucky.

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