The life and mind of Adeline Ong

I find it very interesting that people that I have met recently are very interested in knowing another person’s sexual orientation. I guess this is a great fascination in the entertainment line since most people I know happen to be homosexuals. Personally, I believe that artistically inclined folk are more accepting of the diversity in our sexual orientations. Come to think of it, we humans are very sexual creatures. I mean other than the dolphins and chimps; we are the only other beings on earth that have sex for fun. Don’t ask me how I know that, I just do.

So this is a list of sexual orientation that I have compiled.
Which one are you? You do not have to answer this. This is for your reading pleasure and self discovery (in case you are still closeted)

Asexual –

1. An asexual person does not feel physical/sexual attraction at all
2. An asexual person has no desire to have sex

(So far I have come to know 2 people who are like this)

Heterosexual -
1. Sexually oriented to persons of the opposite sex.
2. Of or relating to different sexes.

Homosexual -
1. Sexually oriented to persons of the same sex

Bisexual –
1. Sexually responsive to both sexes, ambisexual

Trisexual –
1. Officially termed as pertaining to having sex with males, females, and one’s self
2. Unofficially and created by my college mates, Trisexuality means guy, girl and animal.

TRY-Sexual

Sparky termed me as this, a try-sexual. A person who is willing to try anything once. Muahaha… But wait, I am the only try-sexual I know.

A major scare last week made me realize how fragile our lives are.

Grandmama had a minor stroke which affected her speech. She is better now. Sadly, there is the lack of luster that she usually carries in her smile. But seeing that she went from hospital bed to the family living room back in Johor in just 2 days; is a good sign that she is recovering fairly fast.

Personally, I was prepared for the worst. I know it sounds very pessimistic of me but I am honest with my feelings. I bet that the same feeling was lingering in the hearts and minds of many of my family members though I bet none would admit it. After all, it is the festive season and no one wants bad news.

So this year, the cousins and I kicked it up a notch. We celebrated like crazy and played like there is no tomorrow. For me, I hardly play blackjack but guess what I won RM38. Teehee!!!

The most important thing is my family is together for the first time in a few years now.

Tomorrow, we are heading back to Penang for a few days to visit family.

So many people but too little time.

Gong Xi Fa Cai!!!

I am a fan of Daniel Powter’s Bad Day… But move over Bad day… Here comes a BAD WEEK… A real bad week for yours truly…
How bad is this week? Very bad…
And in order to make me feel better, I am going to bitch about this.

I can’t believe that one bad week has manage to make me doubt myself as a person,
I can’t believe that one bad week has manage to make me question my skills and talents,
I can’t believe that one bad week has manage to make me have reservations about my faith,
I can’t believe that one bad week has manage to make me feel like calling it quits,
I can’t believe that one bad week has manage to revive the monster that I once buried,
I can’t believe that one bad week has manage to tear down the walls I once built,
I can’t believe that one bad week has manage to bring back dead memories,
I can’t believe that one bad week has manage to flood my life with idiots and fools,
I can’t believe that one bad week has manage to wreck relationships that took years to build,
I can’t believe that one bad week has manage to make me not want to wake up in the morning,
But I guess, it actually does take one bad week to show that I am actually ALIVE.

I am not much for putting up my Christmas wish list. I know it is too late for people to rush out and buy me stuff if they wanted to but heck, let’s have some fun here.

1. A digital camera – as many of you know, I am one of the only bloggers who do not own a camera. Sad but true.
2. DVD of Across The Universe
3. A cool design for this outdated website
4. A portfolio shoot – headshots and the whole lot
5. A black laced corset
6. A pair of high knee leather boots
7. Thomas Sabo lucky charm
8. Katana
9. Kimono ala Jigoku Shoujo
10. My own entourage of PAs, stylist and publicist
11. Can I be cheeky and add WORLD PEACE?

It is amazing how 2008 just flew pass by me.

I know it sounds clichéd because I believe every other person has the same comment. But for me it is true. It was a year of many discoveries. Some positive, others not so. Happiness versus heartbreak moments. Memories that will last a lifetime.

Through them all, I have picked up some life lessons that I would love to share.

Responsibility – Taking charge of your life begins with being able to take responsibility for the things that we have done be it for the greater good or just because we are the devil’s advocate. If you choose to run away from responsibility, you will be running forever. Responsibility is scary at times but in the end, everything will work out.

Love – It is alright to fall in love and be vulnerable once in a while. It is alright to feel pain when love is lost. It is alright to just feel for once. Love is the mother of all emotions and all emotions are created equal.

Humanity – Hating people is alright as long as you still believe in humanity. There is good in every person no matter how horrible they may seem.

Career – There is no harm in trying for something you really want. Stagnation can only damage you. You are your own biggest supporter. Set the bar higher than usual, you will be amazed at the wonders that unfold.

Self Awareness – You do not always need to know the answer and that is alright.

Humility – No matter what happens in life. Always remember these 4 words. “THIS TOO, SHALL PASS�

Passion – Life is more enjoyable when you are passionate about something.

Money – It is just a tool. It does not define you. If you are skillful, money is a great servant. If not, money is the master of horrors.

Spirituality – Never underestimate the power of prayer. It is magical.

Individuality – Just be yourself. You are who you are and should not spend time trying to defend it or explain yourself. There will be haters, no doubt, but why bother, they are spending their time obsessing over your lack of conformity. You have FANS!!!

As the New Year comes forth, I hope I will be much wiser then. Happy New Year!!!